Your wife has recently come out as bisexual and polyamorous, and opened up your marriage of almost two decades.
You are only interested in being with her, but she insists ‘it’s only sex’ and you should also be open to having sex with other people.
The reason you are monogamous is that you think she is the one and that what you have is special and sacred.
What would you do?
Anna Achia, founder of Anna’s Go Go Academy
Rohan Barwick, presenter, ABC Alice Springs
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