Your husband has been found to have a separate savings account you didn’t know about. For your whole relationship, you’ve been putting everything into the house and joint account and not put anything aside.
You earn more than him and have always shared it all with the family.
It’s left you feeling really bad, but you’re not sure if you’re overreacting as you think it is okay to do whatever you want with money as long as it is agreed upon.
The agreement was to not keep secrets from each other and share everything.
He hasn’t offered an explanation as to why. How do you handle the situation?
Sue Clark, Producer RN
Simon Kennedy Jewel, Ethi-call counsellor for The Ethics Centre
Every Friday we challenge our guests with a dilemma from your ‘too hard basket’ – to discuss, unravel, and maybe even help solve for you.